There are simple steps you can take to improve yourself. The first thing to do is to make the decision to create the reality you want by putting energy into the universe that confirms who you are as the person you want to be. When you look at yourself, instead of thinking about the things you don’t like, take a step back and ask yourself why you don’t like these things. Who told you that you are wrong or that you are inadequate? What was the agenda for this person or group of people when they told you you were not going? Did anyone hope to make you subordinate? Beyond the motivations of people who focus on what they see as your faults, you have a large part in what you choose to believe in yourself. You do not have to accept what others have said or implied about you, and you must accept your complicity when you allow them to create the reality of the situation.
When you create your own reality, you empower yourself and disqualify those who seek to force you to conform to their ideals. In addition, by creating your own reality, you are building a foundation on which the measure of success is entirely up to you. Is it possible to escape into your own world and use the power to create your own reality to avoid the everyday realities that we all have to endure? Yes of course. Avoidance and escape are the two main pitfalls of abandoning the social contract. But if you understand that creating your own reality is far too powerful to be used as an escape mechanism, you can begin to see how it is a tool to master your journey through life.
When you create your own reality, it should be for the purpose of putting energy into the universe which will begin to remake the world as you wish. It’s not about living in denial; the laws of physics still apply and gravity always pulls us to the ground. But if the Wright brothers hadn’t decided to create their own reality, none of us would have ever flown anywhere. You don’t have to change the way humanity moves around the world by inventing a feat of transformative engineering. You just need to imagine who you want to be and how you want to be treated and start living as if this reality already existed.
Here are some ways to create your own reality so that the universe accepts the energy you send and gives back that reality.
Carry Yourself with Pride
Make sure your appearance is top-notch and that you can smile and greet people when you move during the day. You are telling the universe that there are many things you can be proud of and the universe will accept this energy and respect the people you meet on your daily travels.
Engage in Something You Really Want
If you want to be an accomplished guitarist, the only thing that a famous guitarist has in common is that you both play the guitar every day. Once you have one thing in common with your ideal goal, more synchronizations will follow.
Print Business Cards, Build a Website
If you have aspirations for professional success, the best people in your field have business cards, why not you? If you aspire to succeed as a professional photographer, you might have access to VIP events looking for coverage if you give your card to their organizers. Weren’t you just dreaming of what was going on? If not, understand that it applies to the reality you want to create.
Use artistic support to visualize and tell the life you want
Is your dream to meet and marry your soul mate? What does it look like? Perhaps you should paint a portrait of him before you meet him. Find photos in old magazines and cut them out from a representation of the house that you will someday share with him. Write a short story to accompany these images. By creating tangible evidence of your vision and your desire, you are creating a reality that attracts these same things.
Tell Your Story with Honest Affirmatives
Many people take ordinary things that happened to them, things that happen to millions of people and act as if they were victims. Of course, this creates a reality of victimization. You can create your own reality of success and empowerment by connecting the facts of your life in a way that leads your story to a positive climax. You then create a scene-by-scene journey for the universe to write an amazing “happily ever after”.
Can you imagine what you would look like at your best? If you can imagine it, you can imagine it, and if you can imagine it, you can create it and it will lead you to become it. Begin your makeover by making sure that you have the look you want and that it is a look that is easy for you to get in and stay with everyday. Start slowly renewing your wardrobe and you will eventually be forced to look good on a consistent basis. Soon you will have created the reality of yourself at your best and live your dream.
The Right People
Putting energy into the universe to become what you want to be can be as simple as putting yourself in an environment where you are with people like you. If you want to be physically fit, spend your free time at the gym. If you want to succeed in a particular business area, attend networking events for this group of people. Before you know it, you will be among your peers, having created the reality that you and those you admire are at equal levels of success.