What do men want from women? I spent hours and hours discussing the ultimate questions with my girlfriends. And do you know what we found? NOTHING.
So I decided to change my strategy. Instead of chatting with mine, why don’t I ask my male friends to give me the answers?
I knew I could be sure they would be completely honest with me. They don’t hit me and therefore there is absolutely no need for them to lie to cheat on me.
That’s exactly what I did. I asked five of my friends what they found irresistible about girls. Here’s what they revealed.
1. When she takes the initiative, Alex (27)
“Always expecting a man to take the first step is the only thing I hate most about dating. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not that I’m too nervous to do it and don’t mind approaching women.
But the truth is, a guy also likes to feel wanted. She doesn’t have to buy me flowers or anything, but when a girl takes the initiative, it’s enough to make the deal.
After all, girls want equality in everything, right? So how much does it cost you to ask a guy out? Believe me, everyone will be delighted with your courage.
2. The way she looks at me, Dennis (29)
“To be blunt, I can’t really explain it. I think it’s the vibration, the chemistry, the energy she sends me. Call it what you want.
She can be the most beautiful girl in the world, she can fulfill the wildest fantasies of all men and all my standards, but if she doesn’t have that “something” sorry but I won’t fall in love with her .
For years, I tried to figure out what this X factor was. Then it hit me: it was eye contact. You don’t have to have blue eyes or green eyes, but you sure have to look at me a certain way and I am all yours. ”
3. When she’s not clingy, Benjamin (34)
“It’s not that I don’t want a commitment. I am all for serious relationships. However, what I can’t stand are clingy girls.
What I find irresistible about women is their independence. Have your own life and don’t spend all your free time bothering me.
Give me a chance to miss you. Do not play mind games or do it on purpose; let it go because you are a busy lady with your friends, hobbies and interests. ”
4. Chic but not tight, John (38)
“If a girl wants to get under my skin, she needs to be relaxed. I can’t stand stuck up girls who think they are princesses.
On the other hand, I don’t want her to be too vulgar. We can be friends, but you are not my best friend. It must also be a little elegant.
Hearing things like this, you’re probably assuming I’m looking for the impossible, but things are actually quite simple.
Put simply, I find it irresistible when a girl strikes the perfect balance between a woman who can be taken to a dinner party and a relaxed girl who can have pizza and a beer with.
5. When she is confident, Eduardo (40 years old)
“Of all the things a woman can be, being confident is the thing that drives me the most crazy about her. As soon as I see a girl knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it, I’m blown away.
I bet you know what I’m talking about. I’m talking about a woman you can’t stay safe from. She doesn’t have to be the sexiest girl around, but when she walks into the room all eyes are on her.
She’s the kind of woman who isn’t afraid to confess her feelings, a woman who doesn’t play games. Instead, she will always be direct about everything.
Believe me, she is a woman who stands out from the crowd. When you’re with her, you don’t have to pretend to read minds. everything is in the open.