Yes, it’s true. Guys do notice small details about you, girls.🤦♀️
It’s not an easy task to impress a man. It’s surprising to learn that some of your actions make the opposite effect on them even if you are doing everything in your power to attract him towards you. And after that when you try harder to draw their attention towards you, you start acting weird without even realizing it, which repels him even more. Surprising, isn’t it? 🤷♂️🤷♂️
sheistough.com is here to save you from driving the perfect man away. Listed below are the things which men find truly unattractive in a woman.
1. Don’t wear too much makeup.
I know, we are girls. How can we really do that, right?
It doesn’t mean that you should not wear makeup. Looking presentable is also necessary to attract them, but try to make it subtle. Let them see the original beauty. Be confident and happy. Let him gaze at your beautiful smile and amazing personality.
2. Using Excessive Perfume
Do you really believe the advertisements that show the guys getting attracted to the girls who use too much perfume?
Use it on your personal parts, otherwise use few drops. A little goes a long way.
According to science, a woman’s natural scent is more catchy for men. That’s what we want.
3. Bad-Mouthing The Ex-Boyfriend
You may think that it’s a good idea to talk bad about your ex in front of other men. That’s totally wrong. Yes, maybe it was his fault or maybe it was yours, but no reason explains why you are bad-mouthing about him to the world.
It gives a wrong and negative impression. While your intentions are to show that you are totally over your ex and ready for another commitment, what men think is that you still have feelings for him as he is all you are talking about. Don’t let the past ruin your present as well as the future.
Another thing is that when you are using expressing your hatred with harsh words, men see themselves being the next victim of all that.
And moreover, put yourself in their shoes and understand how bad it feels. No one likes to be the subject of negative thoughts. So move on, and look forward to your Mr. Match.
4. Being a gossip
It’s good to share things with your partner. It doesn’t mean to share unnecessary stuff that doesn’t concern both of your lives. Talk about yourself, talk about him, don’t talk about your best friend’s friend. He doesn’t have any interest to listen about them.
It displays that you are not trustworthy and will hesitate to talk. Trust me, girls, gossiping is a major turn off. It doesn’t matter if your intentions are wrong or not, find something valuable and worth talking about stuff. So, next time if you are planning to talk about your friend’s first kiss, be ready to see him walk away.
5. Showing Over-Confidence
There is a fine line between being confident and conceited. You have to understand where to draw the line when you show overconfidence, it makes you arrogant and rude which is very unpleasant for others.
You have achieved so much, you have suffered too much, you are confident and happy. All of these things attract a man but don’t use it as your weapon. Be humble.
6. Being Dramatic
We believe that men like drama and fairy tales. Let me tell you the truth, they can’t stand the girls who do “fake laughs” or “giggles” or using “baby voice” to grab attention. Get over it and be real. That’s what they actually adore. They want a partner, not a daily soap actress.
If you are planning to take a “woe is me” approach to attract a guy, you will get super disappointed with yourself knowing that you are making the impression as desperate, needy, clumsy, immature and over-dramatic. Don’t make him feel like you need to be rescued.
If you want a Prince Charming, you have to act like the Queen.
7. Hiding your sexuality
It’s terrible that we live in a culture that makes women feel dirty or ashamed of their sexuality. It’s even worse when abuse or violence is condoned because she was dressed, acting, or talking a certain way. As a result, many women shy away from embracing their inner bedroom goddess for fear of being negatively labeled.
The right kind of guy won’t want you to do that. In fact, they might find it downright unattractive if you never make the first move and force them to initiate intimacy every single time. Men like a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, whether she’s wearing clothes or not.
8. Ambition-less or no purpose
You don’t have to have your whole life figured out, but guys don’t want to be with someone who is lacking any sort of purpose or direction. It’s unattractive to listen to someone explain how lost they are if they don’t have a plan to get on track. Plus, if it seems like you don’t know what you want to do with your life, it can make you come across as unstable.
While a man might enjoy feeling needed from time-to-time, he doesn’t want to feel like he’s got to rescue you if you are constantly quitting jobs, changing majors in school, and have no drive. This might be especially true if he’s got a clear vision for his future. It will be hard to picture you by his side if you don’t know what you’re doing with your life.