While men always and will always like bad girls, the good girl is the one they fall in love with and commit to possibly for the rest of their life. Aside from the fact that good girls are a rarity, what makes them so irresistible and lovely that men feel compelled to surrender their freedom to them? If he’s not making enough effort to win you, it means he’s not worthy of being with you! From that, we could conclude that not just any kind of man loves a woman who is hard to get.
These women know what they want
Knowing what you want means being confident and sticking to your decisions no matter what. Women who are hard to get know this very well. They know what kind of treatment and what type of man they want, which means they will not accept just anything. And men appreciate women who have distinctive taste when it comes to men and all kinds of things because they know they can’t sell her lies, deceit or any kind of manipulation. They appreciate her for that and they want to prove themselves of being worthy of being a part of her life.
Thease Women Are Honest
She’s an open book: she cries and instantly shows her emotions when she’s hurt, letting you know what you did wrong so you can apologize and fix it right away instead of letting it drag for months. Also, she does not manipulate to get what she wants. Instead, the good girl rarely asks for anything, because you often feel naturally inclined to help her anyways.
These Women Are forgiving to the point it haunts you
Men can sometimes be cruel in moments of anger, saying extremely hurtful words or doing unforgettable actions. But the good girl is able to forgive you the worst things you can possibly have done to her. She doesn’t hold grudges: when you did her wrong, she actually prays for you to have a better life and hopefully come to your senses. Her greatest weapon is her ability to be so kind and compassionate to the point it makes you angry at yourself for falling short. This makes a man puzzled and forces him to face what he did and solve the problem instead of having endless arguments that lead to nowhere.
These women boost a man’s confidence
When men fight for something they really want and when they finally win it with tons of effort, they immediately feel ten times more confident and happier. They feel like they have just won the world and become unstoppable. A woman who is hard to get invokes these feelings in a man when he starts chasing her and when he finally wins her.
These women force men to be better
By not giving all of themselves instantly to men, these women force men to want to be better. They force them to think of every single detail and their behavior because they are afraid that they will fuck things up. And when a man is afraid that he will fuck things up, he instantly multiplies his efforts which helps him to become the best version of himself.
And deep down in his heart, he is just aware of the fact that these women are deserving of it, which makes them go crazy for him even more.
These women are never afraid of pouring their heart into something
These women’s hearts provide a different kind of love. Their love and passion is so strong that guys simply can’t help but want it badly. And that’s exactly what they are fighting for. They know that when they win the heart of a woman who is hard to get, they will experience an uplifting, selfless love because when she loves, she loves with all of her body and heart.
She doesn’t have any problem with giving all of herself in a relationship; the only difference is that she’s first making them fight for it, in order to deserve it, and that is what they really love about her.
These women bring chivalry back
These women demand certain actions from men, which means they give them space to show their chivalry and how much they care. These women bring the definition of an old-fashioned gentleman into the game and believe it or not, many men live for that shit. Men are dying to show themselves off and let you know that they are the perfect choice for you.
A man enjoys showing you his gentleman side because it’s in his nature to be a protector of his woman and family.