Stop Telling Me I Need To Find A Boyfriend

Everyone stop telling me I need to find a boyfriend!

Maybe I don’t want anyone. Maybe I am so involved in my career, charity work, and paying off a student loan that I don’t have time or energy for anyone.

Stop Telling Me I Need To Find A Boyfriend

Why is it that you presume I am unhappy if I am alone?

Why do you think all of my activities and the extra effort I put into work are because I don’t know what to do with my life anymore because I am single and therefore “aimless”? Alone is exactly the opposite. I have all the friends I could wish for, and each of them represents the world to me. At the same time, I am always open to letting new people come into my life. So no, there is no problem.

Above all, there is also the fact that I have not met anyone with whom I would like to pursue something. There is no boy in my life from this moment that I can look at and say with absolute certainty that he could be the one with whom I would like to have something. And guess what? I’m not going to force it. When that special guy comes into my life, it will happen. Alone is exactly the opposite. I have all the friends I could wish for, and each of them represents the world to me. At the same time, I am always open to letting new people come into my life.

So no, there is no problem.

Above all, there is also the fact that I have not met anyone with whom I would like to pursue something. There is no boy in my life from this moment that I can look at and say with absolute certainty that he could be the one with whom I would like to have something. And guess what? I’m not going to force it. When that special guy comes into my life, it will happen. Here’s the thing: I love who I am right now and I’m living a life I want to live. As far as I can see, having a boyfriend would not improve my life in any way that I want or need absolutely at the moment. I’m young, and there are so many things I want to do and places I want to see for myself before I settle down or bond with someone. And believe me, I have every hope of finding happiness with someone later in life.

It’s not that I never want to have a relationship; it is that at the moment, I openly choose not to do so. And that’s fine. Trust me, I’m more than fine.

Qualities I wanted vs reality in my partnerBy the way, check out the previous article. There is a lot of useful information for you - Qualities I wanted vs reality in my partner

I never feel like I’m missing out on anything because I am content with what I’m doing and where I’m going in life. So please, world, take a chill pill and don’t worry about me. And to those who are just nosy, you need to take a few steps back as well. When it happens, I’m sure you’ll all know. Social media is good for things like that. So yeah, I can somewhat appreciate your concern, but please know that it’s truly not needed.

I like my life right now, and let’s leave it at that. I’ll let the universe decide when I’ll meet the one. You should, too. I spend my money on traveling, handbags. I am also involved in volunteering I can cook whatever I want and I don’t need to prepare dinner for anyone. I can go out at midnight and get myself a Mcdonald’s burger if that’s what I want.

I really, truly am satisfied. And if I am okay with your lives and happy about your marriage and kids or relationships, why can’t you be happy for me?

Another chance means another heartbreak?Take a look at the following article. It contains more useful information - Another chance means another heartbreak?

Please, respect me, my decisions, and my beliefs, and stop thinking and saying that I need to find a boyfriend.

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