You KNOW the signs that mean you’re in love with him. Whether you’ve been in love before or not, you’d be able to tell whether you were in love. Unless you’re afraid you might be in love with the wrong person. Unless you do NOT want to be in love right now and love is NOT in the cards for you at this moment and you have NO intention of being in love because you’re just NOT … Even if you’ve never said the “l-word” to him, even if you’re not even together, even if you’ve SWORN you would never fall in love with him… there’s a chance you might have gone and fallen in love anyway.
#1 You have them on your mind 24/7. It’s safe to say you’re addicted. You think about him all the time, but really, all the time. Every moment of the day, you’re thinking about his jokes, his laugh, the way he chews, all these small details no one else pays attention to. If you can’t seem to think straight, well, it looks like you’re suffering from the lovebug.
#2 Your eyes are glued on him. If you’re staring at your partner every chance you get, it could be a good sign you’re in love. Eye contact has always been a strong indicator of romantic feelings. People lock eyes with people they feel a romantic connection with, and it makes sense. You’re not going to stare at someone you’re not interested in.
#3 You try new things. Before you met him, you had a long list of things you would never do. But now that you’re in love, well, you’re willing to try everything. Sky-diving? Sure! Safari ride in Africa? Count yourself in! When you’re in love, you’re willing to try things your partner enjoys.
#4 You feel like you’re drunk. You don’t need to drink or smoke, you’re already feeling high from love. You’ve heard it in songs, but now you’re experiencing it yourself. When we’re in love, our brains function the same way as if we’re high. Crazy, right? Dopamine is released into the body which gives us the “euphoric” feeling. This is why people who are in love are considered to be crazy.
#5 Their quirks turn you on. When you’re in love, the small things that make them who they are become a turn on and even make you fall deeper in love. Maybe he has a crooked nose or a chipped tooth. On any other guy, you wouldn’t appreciate these small quirks, but on him, you can’t get enough.
#6 Their happiness means everything to you.
When you’re not interested in a guy, their happiness isn’t much of a concern for you. Instead, you’re thinking about yourself. But when you truly love someone, your focus shifts. You just want to make them happy. You’ll surprise them, go out of your way to please them, just to see them smile.
#7 You’re planning the future. With other guys you’ve dated, you never really envisioned the future. You may have thought a couple of months ahead but anything more than that never happened. With him, you’ve already planned the wedding and where you’re going on your honeymoon. Now, this sounds a lot like love and is one of the clearest signs you’re in love with him.
#9 You feel energetic. What’s with this sudden burst of energy you’re feeling? Could it be love? I think so! When you’re in love, it gives you energy, making you feel like you can do anything. If you’re feeling more energetic when you’re around him, you could be in love.
#10 Your heart rates synchronize. Romantic, right? When you’re in love, you feel as though your heart has stopped beating. In reality, all that happened is it’s now synced with your love. I know it sounds crazy, but when you’re in love, your heart begins to beat at the same rate as theirs.
#11 You’re constantly talking about him. Whenever you get the chance, you mention him in a conversation with your friends or family. Not only do you think about him all of the time, but you also can’t stop talking about him. Everything reminds you of him and you want to show him off to the people you love and care for.
#12 You re-read his messages. You save every text message he sends you and when you are apart, you spend your time re-reading his messages. Some people read a book, you read text messages. It makes you feel as though you’re living in a romantic novel, going through each phase of love.
#13 You feel yourself when you’re around him. When you’re around him, you can do and say whatever you want. You fully express yourself and don’t feel judged. Even your deep dark secrets have been unleashed in front of him, and he has done nothing but support you. If you can open up to him in ways you never dreamed of, you’re probably in love.
#14 You look at the bright side of life. Before you met him, you would see everything from a pessimistic view. Maybe you thought love didn’t exist or every day was cloudy, but when you’re around him, it’s only sunshine. Everything just feels and looks better.