This year may not have been your friend. Rather, it was the enemy that tripped you and fell so many times.
This year it was the bad boyfriend who broke your heart, a horrible boss who couldn’t see your worth, that jealous coworker, a friend who stabbed you in the back, all the people who exploited your kindness …
The good news is that you are still on your feet regardless, despite everyone who keeps bringing you down. You are so much stronger than you think.
I know you have been beaten and burnt by this year and you feel at the end of your strength.
I know you are emotionally and physically exhausted, but you have to believe, always believe that happiness is waiting for you around the corner.
Remember that when you are down there is nowhere else to go.
When you spend so much time deprived of luck, it is time for that luck to reappear in your life.
It’s time for things to start improving for you, and there’s no need to wait until early next year.
The last month of the year could be the month that changes everything.
December could be your twist, the unexpected turning point for the better if you decide to do it like this.
Yes, it’s all in your hands, but if you want things to change, you have to invite the change into your life.
You have to stop repeating the same old scenarios, hoping the result will be different.
Start by saying goodbye to your poisoned relationship.
Whether past or present, exclusive or almost, if you are not loved and appreciated, let it go.
You deserve more than someone’s false promises, low investments, and crappy behavior.
You need more than just staring at a blank screen. You deserve more than to hope that things will change and be good again.
Make your own life beautiful.
Get rid of self-doubt and there is nothing you can do. Get rid of people who tell you that you are unworthy and see your own worth.
Be the one who turns all the “cant” into “cans” and succeeds against all odds. Believe in yourself. Love yourself. If you don’t, who else will?
You are the master of your own destiny; do not doubt it for a second.
You have the power to own your life. You alone have the final say on how you want to be treated. You have a say in who stays and who comes out of your life.
Don’t dwell on your mistakes. Forgive yourself for not knowing better then. Grow from them, learn from them, and leave them in the past where they belong.
Throw out the idea that you must have your whole life – no one understood their life.
We just play the game, we adapt to changes, we learn as we go. We all put on an act that we know what we want and how to get there.
Never compare your life with the lives of others. Don’t think they’re happy all the time. A perfect life is only possible on Instagram. Reality is something else.
The truth is, sometimes we are all lost. We all cross the spectrum of human emotions, from pain to happiness, and that’s great.
This is how it works. This is what makes us human.
Don’t be afraid of the future, see it as a challenge.
Get the most out of your gift. It’s about embracing the unknown with a positive mindset and dealing with what you can’t change to the best of your ability.
God can’t help you if you don’t help yourself first, so start.
Get up now and do something for yourself. Do whatever makes you happy and makes the heart a little less painful.
Get into the Christmas spirit. Pray. Eat. Love. Dance. To laugh. Do things that make your heart smile.
Work on yourself. Take care of yourself. Remember, you are also important. Give yourself the time and effort that you keep giving to others.
You deserve some time for me. You deserve to chill out, chill out, and spoil yourself rotten every now and then.
To be the best version of yourself you owe it to yourself.
Make this December awesome. Make it a month in which you decide to take matters into your own hands and write the plot twist you’ll be happiest with.