How can you tell if a guy likes you? How does texting reveal his true intentions when it comes to you? Actually, the more you think about sending the perfect message, the chances of sending something stupid are higher. There are definitely telltale signs which will give away how he really feels about you.
He Talks About What You’d Be Doing If He Was There
If he’s always saying things like, “If I was there, we would…”There’s a REALLY good chance he likes you. At a minimum, it means that he’s thinking and fantasizing about being with you. Taken even further, it means he’s hoping to get YOU thinking about what you’d be doing if he was there with you. Either way it’s a big flirting move and a big sign that he’s into you.
He sends you good morning texts
Guys are simple creatures and they won’t have any problem admitting to you that they think of you. If you want to know through texting if he likes you, just pay attention to what time he texts you. If he sends you good morning texts, it is a sign that he likes you. That means that you crossed his mind as soon as he woke up and that you are a special woman in his life.
He sends you goodnight texts
If he is the first one who texts you in the morning and the last one who texts you goodnight, it means that he feels something for you and he wants you to know it. He doesn’t mind spending the whole night exchanging sweet texts with you because that is a good way to get to know each other. Also, if he starts sending some flirty emojis somewhere down the road, it is a sign that he not only likes you but that he is crazy attracted to you.
He Writes You Long Texts
For most guys, texting is not at the top of their list of priorities. Guys don’t really like going back and forth with long texting threads generally. So if he’s texting with you a lot – and sending long replies – it means that he REALLYlikes texting with you. And the biggest reason that he would really like texting with you is because he really likes you.
He Texts You First
Generally, if you’re the one that’s always starting conversations with the guy you like, it’s a bad sign about how he feels about you. That means that the opposite is also true – if he’s the one always texting you first and starting the conversation, it’s because he likes you and wants to talk to you more.
So if he’s the one sending the first text, that’s a very good sign.
He Usually Texts You Back Right Away
I’m not going to go as far as to say that a guy who likes you will always text you right back. Sometimes he’s going to be busy, and sometimes he’s going to miss your text. Plus, sometimes a guy will wait before texting back to not seem “too eager”. But if he’s generally texting back pretty quickly after you text him – and almost always replies when you send him a text – that’s a huge sign that he’s watching eagerly for your texts – and that he likes you.
He asks you questions
If you want to know if a guy likes you through texts, just pay attention to what he writes. Does he ask you any personal questions? Or is he contacting you just because he is bored? If he wants to know more about you, it is a sign that he likes you and that he wants to be with you. Guys never ask questions of girls they don’t like because that would mean wasting time. And that is something they surely don’t want to do.
He sends you a text saying that something reminded him of you
If he texts you that a song or someone in the street reminded him of you, it means that he really likes you. It is a sign that he wants to be with you and let you know that what he feels is not a problem for him. It is really hard for men to express their emotions but if he does something like this, you can be positive that he likes you.
And he probably can’t wait to be face-to-face with you, to show you how much he is in love with you.
He’s Curious About You And Asks Questions
If a guy likes you, he’s going to get a positive charge out of talking to you – and he’s going to want to keep the conversation going. A great way to do that is to ask you about yourself – it gives him an excuse to keep talking to you and lets him know more about who you are.
So if he seems really curious and inquisitive when he’s texting you, it’s a good sign he’s into you.
He gives you sweet nicknames
If you want to know if a guy likes you through texting, just pay attention to what he calls you. If he gives you some sweet nicknames when he sends messages to you, it means that he feels comfortable enough with you and that it makes him feel good when you two talk. Maybe he even smiles when he calls you names like that and waits for your reaction, hoping you won’t mind it. But if a guy made the effort to think of a cute name for you, he surely feels something more than friendship for you.
You are the first one to find out about any big news
If he texts you as soon as something big happens to him, you can be sure that he likes you more than just a friend.
He is obviously thinking about you more than you think and he considers you to be a special person in his life. Just remember who you call or text first when something big and important happens to you and everything will be crystal clear.
He actually doesn’t want to text you, he wants something else…
Texting is the only option he has. He would rather be with you for real, he would rather feel you and touch you, but unfortunately, he cannot.
How can you tell this? Well, throughout your texting, he will drop clues that he wants to be with you rather than anywhere else. When those sorts of things happen, you cannot miss them. You’re not imagining it, he is really hinting to you he wants to be with you rather than texting.
He asks about your day
You know how some people ask you how your day’s been and you start talking but they are not listening to you, or they are listening to you but are not at all interested in what you’re saying? Well, he is not one of those people.
When he asks you how your day’s been, he is genuinely interested in hearing what you’ve been up to. He even asks more questions and he gives his opinions. A man who is interested in your whereabouts and what you’re doing is a man who really cares about you.
He talks about his life
The catch is that he wants you to get to know him better. Before he started talking about himself, he probably asked you every possible question about you and believe me, he remembered everything to the last detail.
Men who share details from their personal life have the serious intention of building intimacy with you. They are preparing you and themselves for more intimate sharing. Only men who have feelings for you will do that.