How and Why To Embrace Fighting With Your Boyfriend

Are you sometimes afraid to speak up for yourself in your relationship?

Do you think it could hurt your relationship? Arguing leads to a breakup, right?

No, and that’s a really big NO. You are wrong. All couples argue, and having a few small disagreements is actually healthy for your relationship.

It won’t ruin your relationship; on the contrary, it will deepen your connection.

But, I understand you completely. I was like that once. I was so afraid of rejection that I kept everything that bothered me inside me.

Unfortunately, I didn’t know how much of a mistake this was and it was definitely a huge one. Because of my fear, I created a toxic and unhealthy atmosphere in our relationship that almost cost me the loss of a person I love.

I thought it was okay, that I would be able to handle it and contain them for up to one day, I just couldn’t keep all of those emotions and things that bothered me inside, and they erupted violently. To be more exact, they exploded.

It revealed so many unresolved issues in our relationship. Fortunately, our love was stronger than him and we were able to overcome everything and save our relationship.

However, we vowed to never hide our feelings or try to hide them within us. We understood that we should embrace and accept all of our differences and issues and try to deal with them in a healthy way.

Arguing actually brings us together

Whenever we have a disagreement or get angry with each other, we realize, once again, that we cannot live without each other.

Every time we reconcile after a fight, we become more and more convinced that our bond is so strong that nothing can damage it.

Accepting quarrels has taught us to communicate more effectively

Do you know the importance of healthy communication for a good relationship? Well, we weren’t at the beginning and it almost ruined our relationship.

We knew we had issues, but we chose not to talk about them as if it would make them go away.

Now we have learned to speak more effectively. For our mistakes, we have learned to take responsibility. We have learned to apologize and forgive each other for our mistakes.

These things not only made our relationship better, but they made our bond stronger than ever.

It helped us to listen to and understand each other better

Most of the problems in our relationship are caused as we didn’t know how to be a good listener.

Fortunately, by accepting a few small disagreements in my relationship, I also learned to listen and pay more attention to my partner’s needs. After all, they are as important as mine.

These little disagreements helped us come to terms with some changes in our relationship

To be honest, before, neither of us were happy with certain things in our relationship, but we were afraid to talk about it because we both thought it could ruin our relationship.

After coming to terms with the fact that having a few small disagreements in a relationship is inevitable, we came to realize that changes are actually good for the relationship.

We are now ready to make compromises and meeting everyone’s needs is our priority.

We have become more affectionate

Arguments have also taught us to be more affectionate towards each other. I have to admit that it really helped us to refresh and rekindle the spark in our relationship.

Whenever one of us makes a mistake we try to fix it in a sane way and then the person who made the mistake apologizes and tries to prove that they are truly sorry for what they are doing. did.

It taught us to tame our egos for the sake of the relationship

Believe me, there was a constant fight going on and it was between our egos and our feelings. We weren’t even aware that it was slowly ruining our relationship.

Our relationship had become a competition where we constantly tried to prove ourselves and be better than the other person.

Fortunately, once we learned to tame our egos, our communication and bonding improved as well.

Admit it, makeup after a fight is definitely the best!

Do you think that couples who love each other passionately fight so passionately? Yes? Me too.

But do you know what is the bright side? They also reconcile more passionately after the fight and this kind of reconciliation is the best.

We swore our love will always come first

Yes, I agree that arguing over some little things is just an inevitable part of any relationship, and it’s actually healthy to have disagreements.

We made a vow never to go to bed angry or with unresolved issues.

Our relationship is and always will be our number one priority. We know how strong our love really is and that is why we will never let anything put our relationship at risk.

In the end, the only important thing is that we have each other… all other things can be resolved.

Our love will overcome all obstacles because it is truly the greatest force in the universe.

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